The use of massage techniques for erotic ends that is widely practiced by couples as part of lovemaking.

Men define Erotic Massage as,

A way to get laid.

Women define Romantic Massage as,

A stress relieving way to relax and be pampered into the mood for lovemaking.

Loverlonger redefines Romantic and Erotic Massage because,

The Luvbed’s ideal positioning frees the man’s hands during lovemaking, so that massage pleasure can be applied at the same time as sexual penetration.

A truly erotic massage is a “double whammy” for a woman because its an interior and exterior massage at the same time.

This describes a truly erotic massage, if you want to give one, or get a really good one, read my blogs,.” Making the most of an erotic massage” and  ”A woman’s guide to erotic massage”

The Luvbed™ Offers

• Relaxed environment for sensual massage.
• Comfortable stress free sexual positioning. For the man reduced fatigue and increased stamina.
• Holds the Vibratormate™ and Eroscillator in place to create a couples mutual orgasm…………….
• Works great on a bed, works even better on its own special Pedestal.
• Designed for easy and accurate, deep sexual entry.
• Visual enhancement and perceived enlargement of breasts.
• Chest comfort for her, breast accessibility for him.

Features:

- 3 inch soft top foam layer.
- Optional attachable, angled mirrors.
- Optional detachable, adjustable hip holders.

Luvbed™ on the Massage Platform with Vibratormate™ and HipHuggers

- Breathable, padded headrest.
- Removable, washable cover.
- Contoured chest cutouts.
- Handcrafted wood design supports up to 500 lbs.(227 kg).
- Dimensions: 34 in. L x 14 in.W x 10 in. H.
- Weight: 25 lbs.

-  5 colors, Red, Pink, Purple, Blue or Black.

- US Patent approved.

Headrest and chest-cutout features were incorporated for added comfort and relaxation. Each design comes with optional hip holders for additional stabilization during sexual play and mirrors for male viewing pleasure. The sturdy, handcrafted wood design supports up to 500 lbs. (227 kg) of combined weight. Removable mirrors, headrest, and hip holders allow you to store the product with ease. Designed with comfort in mind, the Luvbed™ is layered with relaxing, hypoallergenic soft foam padding and has an easy breathing soft memory foam face cradle.

The Luvbed  on it’s Pedestal makes erotic massage comfortable for the recipient, as well as ergonomically easy for her lover to give. This new furniture is adjustable so lovers can meet perfectly in the middle, and at the preferred angle. It’s easy to adjust the Vibratormate into position if a couple is planning a hands free multi orgasmic ending. Make sure you have plenty of massage lotion, a handy towel and a good personal lubricant. It’s a good idea for both lovers to urinate and wash up before lovemaking, so there is no break or discomfort in the action, and it’s a nice convenience if there is something to drink close at hand. Be kind and thoughtful, and treat your lover with respect.

Set the mood with some sexy background music and then help position your naked lover on the erotic massage furniture. Light some candles, if it fits the mood, but don’t burn the house down, remove all your clothing including your socks.

Apply some nicely scented massage lotion all over her back, neck and legs. Slowly massage her neck and shoulders but do a good job so you can help her feel valued, cared for and relaxed. The only way to know how hard or long to massage her is to ask her. Move around her body as you massage and take a few moments to enjoy feeling her breasts, but just massaging her breasts alone probably wont cut it as a genuine massage.

Move down from her shoulders to her lower back, which will always need a lot of attention. Make sure you give a good massage as this will help relax yourself as well as her, ideally avoiding a headlong rush to the main event. Move down to her buttocks and massage some more and soon it will be worth a little flirtation with her girlie parts. You know that having her clitoris stimulated is the route to her orgasm. Try to make it look like you are not just interested in one thing (unless of course she wants you to be just interested in that one particular thing). Move down to the thighs, legs and feet. Once again give a good massage, not just a quick rub. If you hurry the massage, you are likely to hurry the intercourse too, so slow down, relax and enjoy. Notice the wonder of having a live human being in your hands trusting you to make her feel good, so make sure that you do make her feel good. Mix it up a little, with some “genuine” massaging, some well chosen words and some sexual play. Massaging your naked lover may be enough to make you hard but sometimes nature needs some help and your lover is there at the right level with her hands or mouth, to help you rise to the occasion.

Use a good personal lubricant on your penis to enter your lover but make sure you clean the lubricant off your hands before reverting to massage lotion, as the sexual lubricant is “sticky” on bare skin. Avoid judging female wetness, it’s silly and can be hurtful so just put on the lubricant and shut up regarding this topic.  Choose a good lubricant, either water based or oily, or warming oily, there are lots of choices, but try several types beforehand, as they are very different. Apply and re-apply lots of your favorite lubricant during intercourse to make sure things continue moving smoothly.

Keep the massage going as you are thrusting into her to give her pleasure on the inside and the out. This is the “double whammy” luxury that women have been waiting for. Of course, for you it’s not cheating to pull her naked body back towards your forward thrust, while still making it feel like “genuine” massage.  She will notice how nice it is to make love in comfort and she will also appreciate that your bodyweight is not squishing her. You will notice you have more energy if you make love in the standing position, but save that energy to last longer, not to go faster, and make sure your energy is going in the right place, but not at a high speed yet. Focus on relaxing to be fully in the moment and remember extending this lovemaking session will not only be better and healthier for both of you now, but will be something both of you will look forward to for the next time.

Try disengaging or slowing down while still massaging, it’s an option that allows a man to keep sexual control, without losing all physical connection. Keep your head, you have waited since whenever to get laid, so don’t blow it now by sprinting to the finish line.

Keep experimenting to find a sustainable thrusting speed, or depth of penetration to fine-tune your stimulation level to make sure it remains pre-orgasmic. The latest erotic massage furniture connects lovers comfortably while providing easy withdraw and re-entry accuracy, so a man can catch his breath by temporarily stopping, or slowing penetration, thereby lowering the heat of his stimulation, rather than just follow the instinct to speed up and end up ejaculating too early. Think about the sexual and massage pleasure you are giving, and how that might feel to your lover? Keep monitoring the amount of stimulation you are receiving and how close you are to the “too much line”. Be disciplined with your excitement so you can make the most of an erotic massage and usually that means staying below your own personal speed limit or stopping and re-entering a few seconds later (while continuing to massage) rather than ejaculate too early.

Give a lot more time to massage and keep trusting into her, but before speeding up to reach your own orgasm, reach down to turn on the pre-positioned vibrator, so she can climax in a simultaneous orgasm with you.  It doesn’t get any better than that.

Happy endings for both lovers

Hand's free clitoral stimulation so both lovers can orgasm together.

Now satisfied, you can confidently ask her that age-old question “Was it as good for you, as it was for me?”

The Luvbed™ offers a sexy, suggestive position with comfort and easy face down breathing.

The Pedestal provides many height and angle options to make sure  two lovers can accurately and comfortably “meet in the middle”

The Vibratormate™ and Eroscllator  vibrator deliver mutual orgasmic satisfaction while lovemaking.

The HipHuggers hold her gyrating hips in place, so his forward thrusts don’t push her forward and away from him.

The Breast viewing mirrors create the illusion of a four breasted woman.

However even in the relaxed prone position there are a lots of tricks a woman can use to keep her lover happy, but first urinate and wash up so there is no break or discomfort at the wrong time. Together pre-adjust the furniture so the penis and vagina match up at the perfect height and preferred angle.

It is important to relax and be in the moment, so you can enjoy the knowledge that a close connection with a living, breathing human being is coming your way. Smiling takes away worries and makes you look happy, and that encourages your lover to proceed confidently. Become naked with his help or yours, breathe deeply and open yourself up to the awesome pleasures of an erotic massage as you position yourself comfortably.

If your lover is rubbing your neck or shoulders, it takes just a little effort to reach up to gently touch the back of his hands while he is applying massage pressure. The reason this gentle touch is so powerful is because it shows your lover that you are enjoying his hands. Like a pat on the back it demonstrates your approval and suggests that your lover should continue pleasing you this way.

As he penetrates you from behind, it is reassuring to him if you reach back to gently stroke his thighs. Once again your hands will show your participation and approval of his lovemaking. Your welcoming gesture may not seem that much to you, but to a man it is enormous. It is approval, appreciation, and the encouragement to keep going, all wrapped up in the gentle caress of your fingertips.

After a while reach farther back around to touch his penis as he slides in and out of you. It’s not easy for you to reach around  but it is awesome for him to feel the extra sensations created by your fingertips, at the same time as he enjoys your vagina. It suggests that your excitement is similar to his and you want to help increase his pleasure, by naughtily raising his excitement even more. Be careful, make it brief or occasional because you can over stimulate him this way, and that will end the party too soon.

Occasionally lift up your feet to use your heels on your lover’s buttocks to “help push him in”. Matching his thrust with your “help” is exciting to him because it demonstrates cooperation, teamwork and a desire for more of him. Helping your lover make love to you is a huge turn on for him.

During lovemaking your trump card is the vaginal squeeze. It is easy to learn, you just squeeze your P.C. muscle to grip his penis as it slides in and out of you. For him it makes your vagina feel tighter and tells him that you are happy to participate. When you squeeze to make yourself tighter, it ends up making him feel bigger.  Mix it up a little, squeeze the head a few times as he goes in, then squeeze him at the deepest part of his penetration but don’t squeeze all the time, you will get a cramp, just occasionally to add variety of feelings for him, and show him you are there encouraging playfulness by participating in the proceedings. This is a big turn on for a man, but ask how it feels and be careful not to squeeze him too hard.

In this prone position the simple pleasures are often the best so open up wider to your lover by periodically spreading your legs a little more. You can also reach back with both hands to open yourself wider by pulling your thighs forward. This type of non- verbal communication is very exciting to a man. It says you are enjoying him so much that you are greedy for more of him. It demonstrates to him that you are part of a team effort with one goal in mind, to get as close a physical connection as possible. This little move can re-assure him that you are onboard and together with him for this sexy, feel good adventure.

Reach back to hold his hands so you can both pull your bodies together to pull him in deeper inside of you. Don’t feel guilty accepting the luxury of his hands massaging and pampering you for most of the time but take his hands off his massage job occasionally to re-affirm to him how much you are enjoying his penis, by pulling yourself back onto him, and his hardness deep into you.

Some women scream approval, some women moan approval, some sigh and some cry. There is no right or wrong way but anyway to show your enjoyment will be well received by your lover. Men want to feel appreciated because it gives them confidence, so it is helpful to both of you if you let him know what you like, and how fast  for loving, and how much pressure for massaging, and where it feels best etc; etc; Be careful, words can offer encouragement and closeness, but words can also cause pain. “I like this” is much better than “don’t do that” If you don’t like what he is doing, suggest something else like “let’s try this” or “lets do that again”. Avoid saying that the massage feels better than the sex because men’s egos can be fragile. Even if it is meant to be a compliment about the massage, comparing anything to be better than his penis can be deflating, so don’t go there.

Ultimately, two open minds, comfortable positioning, good communication, plenty of personal lubricant, and a sense of humor will make an erotic massage relaxing and enjoyable, or fun and exciting. It’s what you can make of it but remember regular sex is a very important part of healthy lifestyle and regular massage is good for the whole body so it’s important that you get your fair share. For a healthy and happy lifestyle make love frequently and practice safe sex.

The Massage Leveling Platform fits under the Luvbed and is a great choice to set the mood for romance. It is ergonomically correct for massage by keeping the body level. Also works with the Vibratormate™.

                                                The Luvbed with Massage Leveling Platform (and HipHuggers and Vibratormate )

Works best with a Luvbed on a bed or in front of the fire, while still providing face down easy breathing. Does not work with the Luvbed on the Pedestal.

2/ Adjustable for multiple angle changing options to either level, tilt upwards or accentuate the Luvbed’s™ sexy forward sloping angle.

3/The Pedestal provides the most solid platform for the Luvbed, so that if a Vibratormate™ is used, its accuracy is enhanced by the Pedestal’s  firm foundation.

4/ The Luvbed™ works great on a soft bed, but it works even better on the Pedestal because a man can stand longer on his legs, than he can kneel on his knees. It is easier to LoverLonger™ in the standing position, but the connoisseur will soon find out that by going on tiptoes he can find another angle of entry, and by widening his stance or bending his knees a little, there are a couple more exciting angles to be enjoyed.

5/ The Pedestal makes lovemaking easier for a man because, you can’t LoverLonger™ in an awkward position, you need comfort to build longevity. With the Luvbed™ placed on it’s Pedestal it is easy to conserve energy and create the best angle for the smoothest, deepest penetration. You will enjoy the accuracy, especially when you can confidently enter your lover, with your erection leading the way in, and no need for hands to “feed it into the right place”.

5/ Strategically designed for longevity, the Pedestal is even better than the Luvbed™ placed on a bed.  With the use of the Pedestal, the man as the masseur can walk around his lover giving her erotic touch during massage and/or lovemaking.  In most traditional lovemaking positions, a man needing to stop to prevent a premature ejaculation feels discouraged to do so, because stopping and withdrawing is disruptive to intimacy, and to some men find that embarrassing, perhaps even in need of an explanation..This is not the case with the Pedestal, where a man is empowered to make sure that intimacy continues during withdrawal, using the connecting power of continuous massage. Even if a man’s needs to temporarily stop, he can resume at regular speed moments, or minutes later without losing that precious intimate connection.

6/ This is an energy policy you will both love. Traditional lovemaking is usually on a flat surface, or bent over something, or by standing up trying to make 2 people of different heights meet in the middle, “so to speak”. Whether spontaneous or planned, it is all fun!  However, the positions can often be somewhat uncomfortable or tiring after a few minutes for one or both parties.  For a man, a slightly awkward or uncomfortable thrusting position can be problematic, specifically when he is trying to “go deep in the in zone”.  His position can be very tiring because it takes a lot of energy to prop himself up on his elbows, or keep an exaggerated bent knee position to try to fit together with his lover. With the Luvbed™ placed on its Pedestal all the man’s energy can be put into the right place. In this “standing” position he has to just rock back and forth to achieve his best, easiest, and deepest penetration.

7/ Standing up is the most comfortable for the man, but laying down on the Luvbed™ on its Pedestal is extremely comfortable for a woman too. Six adjustable memory foam pads for elbows, knees, and feet leave the legs and arms available for all around massage.

8/ Pedestal cushions available in 5 colors. Red, Blue Pink, Purple and Black to match the Luvbed™ fabric.

Note: The Pedestal serves no function unless the Luvbed™ is placed upon it.

 Here are a few more tips, when using the Luvbed consider using the Hiphuggers to make sure your forward thrust doesn’t push your lover forward and away from you, thereby denying you that last precious inch. Of course a man can use the massage to pull his lover back towards him, so she can feel his fullest  length and if she reaches back to hold hands you can pull each other together to achieve the greatest depth of penetration that way too..  It’s easy, its sexy, and it’s purely in the timing!!!!!

The alternative to erotic massage furniture is that often when making love, either leaned over something, or a man propping himself up on his elbows, it is risky for a man to withdraw completely as part of a full stroke, because the angle or height is often not perfect  in the first place. Usually one or the other person has to “guide the penis in by hand” for lovers to meet in the middle, to even get started , so why chance a full-out stroke when it may slip and go someplace else. Erotic massage furniture offers height and angle accuracy, and that enables the man’s own erection to guide his penis in, entirely and wonderfully hands free. This gives a man the confidence to control the proceedings more by mixing things up a little, using variations in-depth, speed and occasionally using the delicious “full in and full-out stroke” to remind her of the full length of your magnificent manhood.

Make sure she feels your full length, but first my read my blogs “Making the most of an Erotic Massage” to show her more longevity too, and “A Woman’s guide to an Erotic Massage”

Variety is the spice of life, as true today as the first time the words were spoken, and that’s why we made two more interlocking angle choices for the Luvbed™. The SteeperDeeper speaks for itself and fits under the Luvbed to create a steeper forward sloping angle. Man and gravity will provide the deeper.
The SteeperDeeper works on a bed or on the floor in front of the fire. It accommadates the Vibratormate™  and also provides space for the Luvbed’s™ face down relaxed breathing.

Note: Works by fitting under the Luvbed™ and requiring no tools to assemble, but the SteeperDeeper does not work with the Pedestal.