Premature Ejaculation vs Orgasm Without Ejaculation
For a man who knows how to control when he cums, all ejaculations are premature. 🤓
No sooner do the sensations become good than they are gone, and so is the hard on and then the party is over.😟
What does it say if a man agrees that the orgasmʼs sensations are “too much” and that he “canʼt hold back” and then he ejaculates? It says he wanted to hold back but couldnʼt, so therefore, it is a pre-mature ejaculation. That is virtually all ejaculations regardless of how long it takes to get to the orgasm. No one gets out of jail free on this one, if you want, but you canʼt, then it occurred prematurely to what you wanted. Stud or not, when your orgasm lasts a few seconds, you are flushing your fun down the toilet.🙃
Men might consider themselves “good in bed” if the pre-orgasm stage lasts longer than the average man. That may be good for the other personʼs pleasure, but itʼs not good for the man because the orgasm part only lasts a few seconds.
Note; “Good in bed” means caring and sharing pleasure for both partners and more about tickling and teasing than thrusting. The question is did your partner enjoy it as much as you did? This is about making the orgasmic peak last longer.
It doesnʼt matter how long it takes to get to the orgasm, because getting there is just the journey, the prize is the orgasm, and if you ejaculate, you lost the prize.
Pre-orgasm is not orgasm, so any effort to build endurance in pre-orgasm is just fucking stupid. Letʼs face it, every man knows what pre-orgasm feels like so if it felt good enough, men would just stay there? However, worldwide men have voted no, pre-orgasm is not good enough sensations to put in the effort when there is a much bigger prize to be had.
The two problems are that the orgasm only lasts a few seconds, and the orgasm is the only part of the sequence that feels good enough, to want to extend.
Lasting longer before the orgasm is everyoneʼs goal so why do most men fail? It should be easy to do, but the simple reason is that pre-orgasm sucks when compared to the real deal.
The only viable place to build endurance is in the orgasm itself, but that seems impossible because the ejaculation happens soon after the orgasm starts? However, thatʼs the key, the orgasm comes first and soon after we are forced to pull trigger for the ejaculation to occur.
To find the endurance that you would enjoy, you have to activate the orgasm, but not activate the ejaculation.
The LoverLonger method teaches orgasmic endurance by stimulating accurately and distracting the ejaculation urge, so a man can accept and keep his orgasm without allowing an ejaculation to occur. A long orgasm not only offers a man the best sensations he’s ever had, but also creates a very happy partner who wants a longer, slower, and more complete lovemaking session.🤩 A bonus follows, when this same man has the sexual drive to go again, because he is practicing semen retention.
Better orgasms for both partners and no more disappointments anytime, anywhere – it’s a win🙌win!